I have not written in quite some time about the CHILLUNS, so I am now going to rectify that.
Little g is several months into French preschool. French preschool begins at age 3. It is not obligatory, but something like 99% of French families do it because OMG why wouldn’t you? Little g’s school is nice. It’s public, which is FINE, since public school in France is just great if you live in a decent area, which we do. It’s also free, have I mentioned that? We had a brief flirtation with an organic, touchy-feely, bilingual Montessori option, but it cost upwards of 7,000 euros/year just to say hello, and, um, non. I myself went to a Montessori-esque school, and while it was wonderful and taught me to think outside the box and embrace my creativity and all that, it also sort of did not teach me much about MATH, which my high school algebra teacher noticed right off the bat, and I still count with my fingers and oh hell let’s not go there. I’m not forking over 7k so that my 3-year-old can “discover” how to tie his own shoe laces, thank you very much.
So public school it is. In public school, one’s child is expected to be potty-trained, or as the French say, propre (clean). This is a
So the whole first week pretty much went that way. Pee-pee, trash bag, someone else’s clothes. Since then, he’s gotten much better (the peer pressure thing works, in other words) and we are mostly past the accident phase, which does not mean I have removed the beach towel from our couch (who do you take me for?).
Let’s talk about his teacher for a minute, because she’s a piece of work. The woman is in her 60’s, obviously close to retirement, and took a disliking to me from the get-go. Why? Maybe because I’m FOREIGN (actually I’m not, but that’s a post for another day). She likes to balance (toss) these semi-sarcastic, WTF-is-that-supposed-to-mean side comments at me, such as “your son said a whole sentence in French today!” (He’s bilingual, biatch.) Or “you shouldn’t laugh when I reprimand your son” (what?) or “you should feed him in the morning because he’s eating his friends” (WHAT?). Anyway, the dislike is mutual, I can assure you. This woman needs to retire and not go anywhere near little children anymore for the rest of her sad, bitter life. Moving on....
Bonus #1: how to get scratches out of hardwood floors, courtesy of little g and his @&$!! Flash McQueen race car
Forget the wood paste, olive oil, lemon juice, white vinegar, and whatever other bullshit advice you find online. Grab some professional furniture repair wax in multiple shades of brown, a soft cloth, a plastic scraper (old credit cards work nicely), and a shit ton of patience and go for it. Good luck.
Baby c is a dream. She’s sweet, cute, sleeps well and smiles a ton. She gives these slobbery baby kisses that just melt your heart. She is also SICK ALL THE TIME, because oh, have I mentioned that preschool is like one giant biology experiment in which 30 little kids cough all over each other/share their teddy bears/swap pacifiers/do God knows what else for 7+ hours a day? Yeah, so lots of sick. Sick begets sick, especially when sick child #1 loves to hug and kiss heretofore healthy child #2, thus ensuring maximal viral transfer. So baby c, despite being only 6 months old, has already come down with multiple colds, a horrid ear infection, two eye infections, and the straight-up flu, thank you very much French public school.
Also, having two kids is insane. No one tells you this beforehand, because if they did, the fertility rate would plummet, but it’s f*cking hard. Even if they’re sweet and cute and generally amazing, it’s STILL f*cking hard. What’s the divorce rate for couples with two or more small children? I shudder to guess. And on that note,
Bonus #2: the Keep It Together cocktail
5 cl Cointreau
4 cl fruit juice (cranberry, orange or apple)
2 cl lemon or lime
Pour into shaker. Shake, shake, shake.
Serve in a fancy glass because you deserve it!
ENJOY—feel the bitchiness leaving your body.
Repeat as necessary.
Bonus #3: how to get mashed peas out of a shaggy throw rug
Get down on hands and knees, with a magnifying glass if necessary.
Pick out as many little pieces of pea as possible. Long fingernails help.
Wait overnight, allowing any remaining pea mush to dry up.
Spray carpet with carpet cleaner.
Vow not to buy another shaggy throw rug until your kids are at least 18.
See Bonus #2.
|Get used to this, kiddo.|